The Black Friend by Frederick Joseph

 I do love having time on holidays to read books.  The Black Friend is a book I heard about on Twitter and preordered it. I love that it arrived last week, just as my holidays were starting.  I've got so many books on my bookshelf (and many more on my Kindle), so it is nice to work my way through some of them.  

The Black Friend is unlike most books I read and review on this blog.  For starters, this book is nonfiction, which I don't review on my blog.  This book is also more of an adult book,  however, I can see students enjoying it as well.  It is very appropriate for all ages.  I am reviewing it here because I know many teachers read my blog, and this is one you should read!  

The Black Friend's tag line is 'On being a better white person'.  Frederick Joseph uses his past experiences to showcase the damage racism has on people.  Throughout his stories, Joseph discusses the impact and how he handled the situation and what he would do differently if confronted with it now.  It is through these open and honest stories that the reader not only gets a glimpse into the harm caused by words and actions, but also provides an education to the historical or cultural significance of the microagressions (and out right racism) that many people of colour are faced with on a daily basis.  

Each of Joseph's chapters covers relevant topics such as why it is important to see a persons colour, cultural appropriation, stereotypes and white privilege.  After Joseph shares his experiences, he then brings in a conversation with another artist or activist to add another level to the discussion.  Throughout the book, Joseph also shares where the reader can learn more about the topic- I've got several new movies and documentaries in my 'must-watch' list.  

At the end of the book, Joseph also includes an Encyclopedia of Racism- as I was reading through it yesterday I found myself sharing definitions and new learning with some of my friends.  I am lending this book to a friend today, and will be passing it along to others as well.  This is a book that I want to talk with people about - I want to be a better white person and not an ally, but an accomplice - you'll have to read the book to discover the difference!